Sometimes dating just gets tiresome. You go to parties, concerts, or bars always with the idea in mind of maybe meeting someone there. Possibly developing a relationship that could lead somewhere. Most of the time, it doesn’t happen. You may meet someone, but it may only be a one time deal. You may get along nicely for the evening, but it stops there.
Going out on blind dates gets old too. There are those friends that always seem to think they have found the perfect match for you. The person is nice and friendly, but the connection doesn’t take place like your friends imagined it would.
Speed dating is a way to meet a variety of singles who are also tired of the traditional way of dating or just don’t have the time. It’s not a bunch of rejects looking for a date, it’s professional people, beautiful caring people, busy people.
You can learn a lot about a person in only 7 minutes. You will be surprised how you can tell in that short time if you really want to know more about this person sitting across from you or if you already know enough. If you want to know more, and it ends up they also have an interest in you, then the sponsor of the speed dating event exchanges information with each of you to enable you to make contact outside the event. If you are interested in someone, but they showed no interest in you, then you would never feel the humiliation that one can feel when being turned down. They will never know you even listed them as an interest.
While speaking to and asking questions to the person across the table from you, take time to observe them a little. How they react to your questions. If they appear to show an attitude different than the one they are speaking in response to your questions. Find out what their goals are and what their values are. Is there anything in what they say or express that makes you feel like you would like to meet them outside the speed dating event.
There are actually many love matches made at these speed dating sites. Many even become solid long lasting relationships and marriage. It’s really something worth looking into if you are single and having a tough time finding someone you want to have a relationship with.
The events are also a night out. You get to meet a lot of people and chat with them. It’s actually a social event but organized. The main goal of everyone there is to find a date. If you don’t manage to find someone at the first event you attend, there are always lots of other ones.
Go out, have fun and maybe meet someone special at an organized affair.